Bevendre

It is okay to be white, or black, or Asian, or what have you.
It is okay to be a man, or a woman, or whatever gender you identify as.
It is okay to be gay, or straight, or bisexual, asexual or whatever preference you have.
It is okay to be cisgender, just as it is okay to be transgender.
These are things that we do not choose, and cannot change.  These are the things that make up WHAT we are, but they do not define WHO we are.

WHO we are is determined by the choices we make in life.  It is not what we like, but how we share it.  It is not who we like, but how we interact with them and show them the respect they may or may not deserve.  If you attack someone, verbally, emotionally or otherwise, based on WHAT they are, and do so with terms meant to offend them like ‘tranny’, or 'cisscum’ or what have you, then WHO you are is an asshole, and you have chosen to be such.