I really don’t like the whole “I was born gay.” No, you’re not BORN gay just like how you’re not BORN straight. I know when I was 5 and I saw gentiles, I didn’t even think twice. But it’s also true it’s not a conscious choice. I don’t think we’ll ever truly know what causes sexual orientation until we can properly measure brain chemistry (which we can’t do yet nor be able to do in the foreseeable future)
It’s a fair point, you’re not born gay. However, you’re also not born with hair in most of the places that biology says you’re going to grow it, or at 6 ft.
You’re not born gay, but you are gay from the day you’re born. It’s just lying in wait, ready to pounce.