Bevendre
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Reblog and see if you get a color.
- PURPLE: We near never speak, but I do enjoy your presence on my dashboard.
- FUCHSIA: I wish I could become your best friend through the internet.
- GREY: You leave me with jumbled words.
- RED: I'm in love with you.
- PINK: I have a crush on you.
- TURQUOISE: You're hot.
- CHARTREUSE: I sincerely wish you would notice me.
- TEAL: We have quite a lot in common.
- BLUE: You are my Tumblr crush.
- ORANGE: I dislike your page.
- YELLOW: WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO ME.
- WHITE: PLEASE MARRY ME.
- GREEN: I find you cute.
- BLACK: I would date you.
- BROWN: I dislike you.
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“…men actually avoiding contact with women because they’re afraid a simple kiss or date could lead to a sexual assault accusation.”
This is a HUGE problem, in fact THIS WHOLE ARTICLE is extremely disgusting. Not to mention the fact that I have seen quite a few other articles about rape hysteria as well. As a victim of rape myself, this needs to stop. I’m not sure why feminists fear rape like grim death, yet at the same time use it as a revenge tool. False rape accusations are at an all time high, and thanks to the very fucked up NEW Definition of rape, which basically seems to me “ANYTHING A GUY DOES THAT I DON’T LIKE” things are spinning out of control.
Honestly? Honestly! Rape is a serious fucking issue, and you know what? Feminists are turning it into a fucking joke. Feminists seem to be really fucking determined to make rape the most trivial thing POSSIBLE. Now men looking at you the wrong way is rape, now men complimenting you is rape, men saying hello, smiling at you, sitting too close to you on a bus. It’s all rape and oppression and WHAT THE FUCK? How determined are you to make not only rape a joke, but also be victims? How determined are you to make WOMEN LOOK AS STUPID AND FUCKING ALARMIST AS POSSIBLE!? You all goddamn complain about how rape ISN’T Something to joke about while simultaneously TURNING RAPE INTO ONE HUGE THREE RINGED CIRCUS!
For the love of God feminists PLEASE FUCKING STOP!
Certain feminists are also doing a great job in gendering the whole freaking issue and making it very difficult for any man who was sexually assaulted to be believed. Or it can strike fear into men who got into sexual situations without consenting themselves, and then worrying and freaking thinking that they are the rapist, especially if alcohol is involved and both parties are drunk. It also doesn’t help when everyone tells men that they always want to have sex, and no one tells them how to say no, or that they even can so no, if the other party initiates the activity.
- Mod HelgaI will say it again this is really fucked up, sad, and incredibly depressing but sadly not at all surprising.
I see a bunch of feminists on here whining about how no guys want them or like them or want to date them but this article is kind of proof how hideous they’ve gotten with their “rape culture”. This is why men don’t wanna talk to you, this is a problem FEMINISTS created not the men.
moral panics are so very empowering of women
I don’t blame those men in the least. They’re now having to alienate themselves as protection from having their lives potentially ruined. A few things to note here:
- False accusations of rape are at an all time high, and do a lot more damage to a person’s life than those abusing the term of “feminist” would have us believe. The “feminists” of tumblr alone have shown us multiple goddamn times that they are not at all above fabricating their own false stories of assault just to “prove” a point.
- The “statistic” being passed around regarding rape is not only false, but completely and utterly outlandish. The woman who conducted the original surveys the “1 in 4” nonsense came from did so with a very extreme bias, and disregarded the actual feelings of the women she questioned. Not only were consensual one-night-stands that the subjects later regretted considered to be “rape”, but this article notes that even a kiss was classified as “sexual assault”. When you have to lie about the prevalence of a crime, you’re not doing women any favors.
- RAINN - the leading organization dedicated to helping victims of rape, has openly discouraged “rape culture” from being taught on college campuses, because it takes attention away from the people that are truly responsible for rape: the rapists.
- More men are statistically the victims of violent crime and murder than women. In fact, men are at least three times more likely to be victims of crime than women. Even in domestic violence, at least 40% of the victims are MEN, with WOMEN AS THE ABUSERS. Also, recent reports from both Harvard and the CDC have discovered that up to 40% of all rape is carried out by women.
- Acts of violence are not a product of our culture - they are a product of a lack of function in the brain, particularly the pre-frontal cortex. No form of joke of any kind is going to damage a person’s brain. You could bombard a man with violent imagery of rape and murder, but mere image and suggestion is not going to disable the functioning of the pre-frontal cortex. This area of the brain is responsible for controlling our impulses. For most human beings, this keeps us from acting out against what we’ve learned to be the appropriate behavior in our society. Time and again, science has shown us that the brains of violent criminals are not the same as those of the average person.
The people that commit rape lack the empathy to connect with their actions towards others. They are more than likely already well aware that what they’re doing is wrong. They simply do not have that little voice in the back of their head that tells them not to actually do it. What they AREN’T, however, is a product of “rape jokes”, nor the fault of the media. The kind of people with the capability to commit rape are not going to be influenced not to do so by any amount of banners and signs. - On top of the differences found in the brains of convicted criminals, there is also the fact that male and female brains are not wired the same. There is a part of the brain that connects the two hemispheres (the corpus callosum) that is smaller in boys than in girls. Now, studies have frequently shown that violent criminals are also usually the products of broken homes, and childhood abuse. Such abuse actually reduces that part of the brain even further in boys, while such an effect is not shown to occur in girls that endure abuse at a young age. It is this part of the brain that effects how they cope with stress and trauma at their earliest points in life. The way that we treat little boys as essentially emotionless is weakening their psyche, NOT “toughening them up” like we think it does.
Violent criminals are not manufactured by society. They are manufactured by THEIR OWN, PERSONAL HISTORY AND BIOLOGY.
Here are even more resources for further reading:http://www.theguardian.com/science/2013/may/12/how-to-spot-a-murderers-brain
http://www.businessinsider.com/murder-brain-scan-2013-5
http://www.livescience.com/13083-criminals-brain-neuroscience-ethics.html
http://chronicle.com/article/Can-This-Man-Predict-Whether/127792
http://www.bbc.com/news/health-15386740
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=128116806
http://www.usc.edu/uscnews/stories/840.html
http://science.time.com/2013/05/03/evil-brain/
http://digitalcommons.law.umaryland.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=2034&context=fac_pubs
This glorified mass hysteria known as “rape culture” has now finally driven men and women farther apart than ever before.
Now, someone please explain how this is encouraging gender equality, because—maybe I need to get my eyes checked—but I’m just not seeing it. I’m also not seeing anything that could even remotely be considered “empowerment”. All I am seeing is resentful women passive-aggressively lashing out in sociologically harmful ways over their own lack of understanding of others, perpetuating unsubstantiated widespread panic, alienating themselves from men even further than they already had, and basically trying to force women to live in a constant state of subservient fear.
If that’s anyone’s idea of “empowerment”, or “protecting” women, then please - keep it to yourselves from now on, because we’re better off without it.
“All according to keikaku”, grins a tumblr femnist under the long, dirty locks that fall over her pimpled face. She pets her 15th rescued stray cat, and prepares to write a lenghty post how men being afraid of women is a good thing. “Soon everyone will be just as lonely as we are, Miss Snufkins.” she says to her cat before shooing the beast away from her keyboard.
(via thedenofravenpuff)
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In regards to the cause of the family discrediting work authority and experience thing, it’s a fun story.
Save for a few days in the past 6 years I have maintained a positive balance in the bank. There have been periods where, after paying off bills, debts, etc. I was close to a non-balance, but I have never owed the bank money, nor my family more than a few hundred dollars at any time, that largely coming from college tuition.
This has never stopped my parents, both of whom work for a large banking/hunting company, from criticizing my budgeting and money handling habits. I will admit to not always making the wisest or best of investments, but I always make sure that what I spend does not exceed what I have. (The same cannot be said for my sister who has overdrawn every few months for the past 3 years, with little to no parental backlash.)
I have worked the last 6 years at a local grocery store, with the last 3 spent almost solely working with refrigerated and perishable foods.
When getting food from the freezer this evening I noticed that the freezer wasn’t freezing. It was warmer than the refrigerator in many places. When I tried to fix the freezer by dialing down the temperature I was told that there was no point because ‘it was too full for that to work’. The freezer is cooling now, but my parents are convinced that I’m still wrong on the subject.
There is also the case of yogurt being kept and used more than a year after its expiration date, and sour cream still being kept and used after it had expired nearly 5 months ago. I have brought both issues to my family’s attention in the past to be told that I was being stupid and didn’t know what I was talking about.
For a brief background to put things in perspective: My father is a high school dropout who got his GED and dropped out of college in his sophomore year, and my mother dropped out of college in her junior year, while I have a Bachelor’s Degree in English Literature and accolades in sciences and four non-English languages. -
Don’t you love it how parents and older relatives will take every opportunity to flaunt their work experience and authority, yet do everything possible to ignore yours after you have some?
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Is it just me, or do Sontarans look like the unholy offspring of Mr. Potato Head, and Buzz Lightyear?
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When you hear that someone you hate has been invited over
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